I answer your question first.
If you use the wisdom thought or understanding my message, you will know the answer.
Love is not just to send a message to talk to each other.
That"s ridiculous.
Marriage, a man and a woman get married there are many details.
Not talk a few times without seeing and knowing the basic family.
You will get married, it"s impossible.
It"s not a joke.
That means people have no idea, no detail, not the family to live.