Here something about me. I am a 52 year old Swede, that lives in Switzerland since 91 I have my own small computer Support company. I make a good living for me and my Son. I have been married twice. I am currently separated from my second wife since Aug 2012 and have been given custody of my son. Will start divorce this year. Reason it did not happen last year was some health issues i have. I was diagnose with Anal fistel in late summer of 2011. Had my first surgery in Sep 11, then one again in Feb 12. In early summer of 2012 they discovered that i had a large fistel nest close to my prostate. They wanted to to operated on it in the Autumn but the Feb wound was not healing well so they gave me a Colostomy end Aug 12. The wanted to do the larger Surgery later, so they sent me to a heart check up because i have had a valve problem since i was 25. The Heart doctor took a small look with his ultrasound machine and said it is to big and called for an emergency check up from the inside needed to swallow a cam so they could look from the inside. They then discovered that i had been born with only 2 aorta valves and that my aorta had grown to 5 cm diameter (4.5 cm is deadly) It was then decided to just take out the infection i had from the fistel and that was done mid Oct 12. I then had some complications at Chritsmas and had surgery again on the 9.1.13 and 22.1.13. I then under went my heart surgery on the 27.2.13. It went well and i have recovered bodily from it full but in my head it is not all finished yet. I then had a surgery beginning of July 13 and then again in Okt 13. I hope at the moment to have my final surgery on the 27 and make the Colostomy back.