The Lovers card reversed suggests that you may not be fully committed or have other ties (or apron strings)
that are keeping you from making a decision or considering a proposal or rendezvous.
Being jealous, avoiding responsibility, blaming or remaining in a self-deceptive love triangle can't go on indefinitely --
it only postpones the inevitable.
Something's got to give or an impartial choice may need to be made.
A third party could help to clarify things.