seminimalistaI think it's time for you to realise that your sister has a serious problem...psychological problem to be precise. Stay away from her. You don't need a family member who stabs you in the back and always causes you trouble (while helping you spend your money....that's just pathetic). She obviously doesn't care about your happiness no matter how much she tells the media about how people should value family. Actions speak louder than words. You need to take all the emotions out of it and you will see clearly that she does not mean well. With your mum....with all due respect, if she is a good mum like you insist, she should realise too that it's not you who needs to be 'managed' anymore. It's your sister who needs a good kick up the arse and a slap on the face for treating her sister who had been working so hard for the family like this. Anyway, I'm just a stranger, not even a fan of yours, but I genuinely wish you strength and good luck from Melbourne:)