The role of an adult is to protect and support children and youth. There is an
imbalance of power between an adult and a child. Children do not have the
same level of knowledge or experience, nor are they developmentally ready
to compete with an adult mind. Talk with your child about the importance of
seeking help from you if s/he is uncomfortable with any exchange with
an adult. Even if s/he is embarrassed, reinforce that you are there to help