Pim
I am not a drunk - understand it !Believe it ! I one had a drunk man as a lodger - I know what alcohol can do to some people. I learn from the experiences of others. There is a very big differene between having one social drink with friends and getting drunk. In England there is a saying called 'beer belly' - meaning people who drink have big stomachs - when you see me - you will see I not have.
I am happy to use a condom with you, not worry about that. You are my wife and as a husband I accpet my wife's wishes. It is safe for you and if you think you would ever lose my love for you because of a condom - you really would be mad !!!
Do not worry about me hearing bad things about you from other people or people slander you. After you sign the papers you will be my wife in law - nobody can say anything that would ever make me divorce you - unless you have another man. If anyone said Pim did something bad in the past - I would just say the past is the past, I do not care. YOu are my wife, my world and my future, so not worry.
My father loved my mother - my mother was very beautiful in her early years, later she had a problem with a pulled nerve in her cheek from a dentist, so she used make-up to cover it. But my father loved her without bounds - he felt her beautiful with or without make-up.
I feel like this about you Pim. So never worry about beauty - you are beautiful to me and that is what counts.
Husband, Richard