u need to consider one thing - if u want to share yourself with a MAN - u will have to FORGET your son for a while
if u wat your SON life then - U need to forget MAN for some time - until SON settles down
its time for him to search on his own - u need to tell him - that u have to look after urself
u can also tell him - tht u are looking fora MAN - he will understand - until u tell it will not change ur life