I think i approached badly as i was half asleep. And i hope i didn't offend you.
I cannot afford a house. Plus if there anything that displeases Allah i keep away from. Like repah. But to me it is a dunya possession i have dislike of. Because I'm trying to work on the here after. When i read about the sahabs there dislikes or even given away the dunya products just for al akhira.
There's things i see from peoples characters in this world. But majority are towards dunya. If i had a house i would gladly give it away. But i strive in this dunya as a stranger.
You are a good person. All i want is for you to be stronger. And i do apologize as i kept reading a few times to understand the question.