In psychodynamic terms, to
project misery means passing it along trans generational in the family unconscious or through the translation of role
models. This is how N explains all her adult life trauma and which are all on the same line of rejection: “ That’s the
explanation why I was kicked out of those work places 15 times… I was simply kicked out… It’s possible that my
husband knows all of these and for that reason he treated me so bad all my life…”.