IDarling, let me try and explain to you for your understanding. Yes, I would like to see your place because I am naturally curious, but it is not important to me. What is special to me is you cooking for me, but I do understand that your place may be difficult to you. I do understand. As I said, you cooking for me is very special but what is the MOST IMPORTANT is for me to be with you ANYWHERE. It is your choice. You choose what is best for you and what you want, with or without your brother. We will talk further on it tomorrow