Roger,
I can do what you want...
From now on, is a question.
How old you are. I saw in your profile on (skout.com) age you 30 but in email birthday 5 March 1978.
You tell the details function and position.
I know, your parents have passed away, I'm sorry, but you have anyone in the family that I do know?
Please explain.
I understand the situation, you are very busy. But I hope you can understand my feelings as well.
Every day I wish you safe and move on from there quickly.