Part of my problem is that women can't get past my appearance. I must admit that I am a big man. Many people, men and women both, are intimidated by my size. The fact that I have a beard and long hair does not help, I suppose. For these reasons most women will not even bother to get to know me. That is alright, because they will never know what a great friend that I could be to them. Noi was very quick to notice that I was much more than what I appeared to be on the outside. That is one of the reasons why she is more a Sister to me than my real Sister.