You probably have quite a good understanding of how far you can go in implementing your ideals in love and where you must accept reality without trying to change it.
If possible, however, you cleave naturally and without strain to the standards you have set for yourself.
In the long run, you will be most happy with a regular partner whom you are familiar and comfortable with, someone who knows your needs and desires well. You use sexuality as a reliable and enjoyable means of communication rather than merely as an outlet for physical need or personal gratification.