what has your exact same personality as much as you might want to think that back I just get you completely that is not true you have your own distinct personality now the question becomes what defines a person’s personality what creates person I what’s that the best influence up personality so some people make its heredity which is basically your jeans when you are conceived you get a DNA coding that DNA code says with your shot I am or you are gonna be an athlete you’re gonna be a great public speaker or you’re gonna like spicy food that already is wanted by the exactly what your personality is going to pay other see it nurturing your social environment t’s the imports have your family and your friend and your school and your upbringing that define your personality not your jeans now this debate is going back and forth and back and forth and here the arguments for ball people who say nature. Nature you’re ready your jean map your personality point 2 instinct that there are certain things that we do just because we do that work talk to us that we didn’t get my parents are friends whole fight or flight thing wherever and a situation me the runaway every bite that’s just in think that’s just part who we are nurture people go to the workers Ivan Pavlov he wants you see if he could his dogs to salivate when he rang a ball so what you would do BC go out to his old dog house the feed the dogs need every time would be the dogs and dog a topic they were hungry then all you do is you feed the dogs and when he did give he gave the dogs he rand a bell dog salvi as the scene who they here the bell that he took the food away and when he rang the bell dog salivate because they would thing who this coming so proponents nurture look to the experiment a no don’t know who we are can be molded and condition by the environment around us now is it a law of nature or all nurture answer no it’s available but how much has been debate for a long time now one very interesting experiments on that involved Harlow and his monkeys on Harry Harlow launched do a test to see how important is up family to a newborn child so he took a monkeys and six to twelve ap hours after they’re born they took it from a smaller and what they did was they gave it easy to baby mothers one was made wire and had food and one was made up claw and had so and then they just saw what this baby did what will this monkey be able to do what all this monkey becomes if you take away it parents what they believe was the monkey was only going over to the old wire looking for food one hour a day everything else was with the claw mother hung on to the claw mother then after his moms have grown up they release them and this is what they found the monkeys that nicely it had very strange behaviors they were able to go along with the monkeys they were very aggressive they were very bad parents someone actually kill their own children they didn’t know how interact with other monkeys because that never been taught to that and even though they are reintroduced they were able to still pick up those norms up monkey behavior they’re actually rejected by other monkey so this is what this proves that there time periods in a person’s life where who they’re with what they were doing matter greatly into their personality and that there’s a critical time for you develop who you are mostly that’s when you’re very young and this idea society make you who you are family friends media that socialization so this experiment for there you really need to have society around you make you active and make you valuable in a society so that you don’t you get injected so after all that what really influences your purse now there are four main things that will encourage personal heredity does you have certain genes that predispose you being shy or outgoing or an introvert knows that mean you can overcome that know that you’re comfortable in certain situations your order decides a lot about your personality if you are the oldest you are leader you more assertive your