Argue win customers, won then customers gone
argue wins colleagues, won then the unity of team was broken
argue wins the boss, won then no progress in the work
argue win relative win of kinship,won then brothers gone
Argue to win friends, won then friends can less (decrease)
argue wins lover, won, then love is lessen
argue to win who = win is lost, to win a fight against yourself.
Get oneself strong growth, stable, even as the true winner.