Whereas the previous theme was based on actual nonsupport,
nonacceptance, and harm, participants also cited many
reasons for excluding an individual from their chosen families
because of tentative or conditional emotional closeness and
trust. PLWH feared negative consequences, such as rejection
or loss of a relationship or employment, if these individuals
knew their HIV status. They also feared that others would
be told of their HIV status if they made it known to specific
individuals they excluded from their chosen families. Specific
responses included: