just my opinion but I believe the result of these two conflicting reproductive goals is that women are more content to wait for that 'perfect guy' while men are just trying to find anyone that will have them (within reason obviously but you will see many guys who have given up trying to find a great partner 'settle'). So you end up with women saying 'there are no good guys out there' while waiting for an amazing guy and tons of guys who are good but just not quite good enough to match the ideal partner.
The women are content to wait (for a while at least) while the men are tearing their hair out, wondering what the hell is wrong with them.