3.Love has no control and neither does one’s mind when they are in love.People who says that "age matters" is just a lame excuse to say that they themselves are not confident and does not trust their own feelings. You can't control who you love , because love is not only blind. Once your heart skips a beat, you know it's love and you can't contain it. Because if you do, it will only make you even more CRAZY IN LOVE with that someone. And besides, as human beings we are wired to always want what is best for ourselves. So, I cant see why age should ever matter Because the real problem is that Insecure couples are forever locked in a cycle of jealously and anger.