We understand the problems that you have at your current family and can understand that you would like to change family.
We live in the center of a town in eastern Jutland called Hedensted (postal code 8722) in our own house of 184 sq meter's in on level with a nice big garden surrounding the house. There is only 5 minutes walk from the house to the train station. Aarhus can be reached with train in 30 minutes.
We pay a minimum of 4000,- DKK and if extra help is done or willing to be done by the au pair we also find a way to deal with that.
We have a son 3 and a girl 1,5 and an old but very friendly dog