Logical Consequences. Spanking a child when they hit a sibling is sending a mixed message about using physical force to resolve problems. Instead, discuss what might be a logical, non-violent consequence for whatever the offense was. Make sure the consequences you choose are respectful, related, and reasonable. In the case of the one sibling hitting another, a logical consequence might be that the offending sibling would not be able to join in on the play until they had their angry feelings under control.