Dining etiquette for beginning to eat. Do not begin eating until the host says. "Buòn appetito!" Dining etiquette for utensils. Italians do not switch knives and forks. The knife remains in the right hand, and the fork remains in the left. When the meal is finished, the knife and fork are laid parallel to each other across the right side of the plate, with the tines of the fork facing downward. If you put both utensils down on the plate for any real length of time, it is a sign to the waitstaff that you are finished, and your plate may be taken away from you. Alternately, if you lay your cutlery down on either side of the plate, it means you haven't finished. Dining etiquette for you place setting. The fork and spoon above your plate are for dessert. There are often many additional pieces of cutlery: if you're unsure of which utensil to use, always start from the outside and work your way in, course by course. There will be separate glasses provided at your setting for water and white and red wine (after-dinner drink glasses come out after dinner). If you have a small plate as well as a larger one, plus a bowl, most likely the small plate will be for antipasto (salad plates will come out later), and the large plate for the main course: the bowl will be for soup if a soup spoon is present, or for pasta if a soup spoon is not present. Dining etiquette for eating bread. Bread is usually served without butter (therefore, there will usually not be a butter knife, but there may be a bread dish: if so, this usually means that olive oil will be served to dip the bread into; if not, you can place your bread on the side of your main plate or on the table throughout the meal). Dining etiquette for your hands. When not holding utensils, your hands should be visible above the table. Rest your wrists on top of the table (never your elbows).
Dining etiquette for passing good. Pass all dishes to your left. Dining etiquette for eating salad. Never cut the lettuce in your salad. Fold it with your knife and fork into a little bundle that can be picked up with your fork. Dining etiquette for eating pasta. If you are served pasta, do not use a spoon to assist yourself while eating it. Use a fork and the sides of the bowl or plate against which to twirl the pasta onto the fork. Do not slurp the pasta strands into your mouth. Place the entire forkful into your mouth at once.
Dining etiquette for gravy or sauce. If there is gravy or sauce, you can generally use your bread to soak some of it up, but do so carefully, and don't mop the bread around the plate. Dining etiquette for seating. The most honored position is in the middle at each side of the table, with the most important guest seated immediately to the right of the host (women to the right of the host, and men to the right of the hostess). If there is a hosting couple, one will be seated on each side of the table.Dining etiquette for restaurants. In informal restaurants, you may be required to share a table. Wait staff may be summoned by making eye contact. Dining etiquette for talking business. Depending upon how well developed your relationship is with your Italian colleagues, it is generally not the time to make business decisions. Take your cue from your Italian associates. inning etiquette for the home. Allow the more senior members of your party to enter rooms ahead of you. At the table, be sure to look for place cards or wait until the host indicates your seat. Dining etiquette for paying the bill. Usually the one who does the inviting pays the bill, although the guest is expected to make an effort to pay. Sometimes other circumstances determine the payee (such as rank). Dining etiquette for tipping. A 10 percent tip is usually sufficient for restaurants.