Remember that you come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by seeing and imperfect person perfectly. So many precautions need to be taken before using THREE MAGIC WORDS (I LOVE YOU) My good friend, I have a few questions to ask you; Can you marry a man who is not from your country and treat him as yourself? Can you accept a man with a child? Can you take care of the family if your husband not at home? May God bless this friendship so that we can grow to another level of life...much love my dear friend. Yours trulv Richard.