The other option-inviting the questions, making them your idea rather than theirs-runs the opposite subtext. 'I am in charge of this. I've anticipated that there may be difficulties and encouraged you to raise them. I think of you. I have an idea if know you think. I plan this.' You will notice that the latter subtext, apart from being positive and constructive, differs from the first in ownership. The first subtext was theirs. This second subtext is yours.