Conclusion
The research on positive and negative effects of video games clearly shows that videogames are effective teachers that can affect players in multiple ways simultaneously. So, the original question asked about whether games were “good” or “bad” is demonstrated to be a false dichotomy. Some effects are harmful (such as effects of violent video games on aggression and the effect of screen time on poorer school performance), whereas others are beneficial (eg, effects of action games on visualspatial skills). Therefore, in a best way parents and other caregivers should be recommend your children for choosing and using video games.
Advice for pediatricians, parents, and other caregivers on choosing and using video games
Ask about games and other media use at well-child checkups. Pediatricians and general practitioners are in the unique role of helping parents to understand that they need to take their children’s media use seriously. Parents setting limits on the amount and content of children’s media is a powerful protective factor for children.
Do not rely solely on ratings. Even games rated E for Everyone often contain depictions of violence. Instead, try playing the game yourself, ask someone to demonstrate it for you, or look for descriptions or video clips of the game on the Internet.
Choose well. Select nonviolent games that have been shown to have positive effects, such as educational games, prosocial games, and exergames. Do not allow access to violent video games, defined as games in which you must harm other characters to advance.
Set limits on both the amount and content of games. Create clear rules about amount of time and the kind of content that is allowed. Even positive games can be played too much. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no more than 1 to 2 hours of total screen time (video games, TV, DVDs, computer, and so forth, all summed together) per day.
Keep game devices in public space. When gaming devices are in private space (child’s bedroom), it is very difficult to control either content or time. Move them to public space (eg, living room, kitchen).
Stay involved. Explain to your children why playing violent games or playing games for an excessive amount of time may be harmful to them. Discuss your family’s values concerning violence and aggression. Help them learn to make good choices.
Spread the word. Help educate others in your community (parents, youth, public officials).Although almost 100% of pediatricians have been convinced by the data that the media have significant effects,76 the public do not know this. The mainstream media often sensationalize and polarize discussion on this topic; it is important that people understand that there are both potential benefits and harms to be derived from game play.