Cats are known for being more aloof than dogs, which is disappointing for cat owners who want a cuddly, affectionate kitty.
Although some cats are quite affectionate and will happily cuddle up in a warm lap, others are resistant to being petted, picked up or cuddled.
If your kitty is not naturally affectionate, there are some things you can do to bond with your cat to make interactions between the two of you more positive. Your cat may never become the constant companion by your side like a dog is, but you should be able to both give and get some affection from your cat eventually.