Tips for effective problem solving
Before outlining a specific strategy for solving problems, we will review a few general guidelines on increasing the likelihood of having a successful outcome. [parts adapted from Mueser & Gingerich, 1994; Woolis, 1992]
A. Approach the problem with an upbeat, optimistic outlook.
1. Research has found that a positive frame of mind fosters creativity and effective problem solving.
2. A positive attitude can make family interactions about the problem go more smoothly.
3. Timing is important. Select a time to address the problem when you and your family members are feeling calm and able to focus. You may choose to ask your loved one, “Is this a good time to talk?” Or you may schedule a regular time (e.g., after dinner on Sundays) to discuss family issues.
4. Rather than dwelling on how disruptive the problem has been historically, try to focus on how the problem can change for the future.