Before you can take care of me or anyone else, you have to be able to take care of yourself. It's not possible to take care of anyone if you can not take care of yourself.
The best way to take care of yourself is to have a mind that can "let go" of anger, desire, selfishness, etc. That requires meditation.
Having Buddhism as a religion is easy. Having a meditative Buddhist practice is not easy. ... but it has big rewards and can provide total peace of mind.
I would never bother to tell you all this if I did not love you. I want you to be happy and it will take more than love and money to do that. Most of all it will take a peaceful mind..... yours..... only one way to get that.
Spence