Thinking that it is good that they did that to us. For example, someone abusing you is better than they hit you. Someone hitting you is better than they kill you. The wife committing adultery is better than she kills her husband. The husband committing adultery is better than he kills the wife for the other girl. An example of this method is as follows:
Venerable Punna was a resident of the Sunaparanta town before his ordination. He traveled to the town of Sawatti for business and ot an opportunity to listen to the Lord Buddha’s teaching until he wished t o ordain.