Raise a wonder child? They could barely hook up for a first date. He was on assignment in Thailand, and she was working as a secretary in U.S. Army office. He said eight, thinking p.m. She heard eight, thinking a.m. “Thai girls not go out at night,” she says proudly. When she didn’t show up, he figured she had stiffed him. When he didn’t show up, she went and found him…