I will make it a bit easier for you to know me. I have few factors that is important to me.
1. Love and especially that my partner is not afraid of showing that she loves and who is good at making me never have doubts that she loves me.
2. Trust and respect. I can not love a person who I do not trust and also a person who is only good at thinking about her own needs.
My ex. wife was very selfish and not good at thinking about mine or my sons needs. That is why I divorced her snd also why both my children wants to live with me!
3. I have a big need for closeness and twosomeness,to feel close to my partner.