she only succeeded in creating great doubts in my mind as to what she what truly want. She is made me think that there maybe another guy of interest to her. I simply want to know the truth. If that's what she wants and that's what will make her happy, then all she needs to do is to tell me so. There is no need to create all this drama. Let's make it real simple . I do not want her to feel obligated to me in anyway. It's far better to have this resolved now then after I make plans for a trip