Sorry baby I've only just got these 2 emails of yours now (I've been away from the laptop), i think now i understand what your texts were about. I tell you what, let's both sleep on it shall we and we can talk tomorrow? This is all very serious and we both need to be absolutely clear to each other.
Can i make a suggestion? Lets both of exactly what it is we need/want from this relationship:
What exactly do YOU want?
What do YOU want/need from ME?
What do YOU expect from ME?
What do YOU want ME to change / what do YOU want ME to do? Etc etc.
I suggest we make this list thinking of both short term and long term. I think this will help both of us. What do you think?