When immigrants have children they may be in a difficult situation. The parents usually continue to speak their native language at home. But when the children go to school they soon learn the new language. So they speak one language at home and another language at school and with their friends. When they are older however they may not want to speak their parents language anymore. They may want to be like their friends. Their parents may not be happy about this. And so there may be family problems and fights.