10) Money often causes problems in a marriage, sometimes
leading couples directly to divorce court. To control money
problems in a marriage, set goals to clarify what you really
want. Another technique is to fi nd out where you are really
spending your money. Add up those “little” expenses such as
a morning cup of latte at $3.00 a cup or an apple-blueberry
muffi n for $1.00. At the end of the year, you’ve spent $1,460.
In addition, set a “talk to me” limit, deciding which purchases
require a household discussion. For example, many couples
might decide that any purchase over $200 requires a joint
discussion before purchase.