I don't think I came on here looking for love as much as friendship and a penpal. But, one thing leads to another and I just randomly found love on here.
As for those guys who message you about relationships, you're going to get those emails because of your gender. There are people out there who are desperate for a relationship and think they're Rico Suave to every female they respond to.
I wouldn't let that part of the IP population deter you from Interpals, though. There are great people here. You just sort of have to find them.