if exercise doesn't change how we eat for the better, it will never ever lead to weight loss and a healthy body. In particular, if our way of exercising is aggressive, pushing, forcing, we'll just build tension and carry it through the rest of our lives. We'll eat aggressively, mindlessly, without the self-connection that's our best road to being healthy. And there's no amount of fat-blasting and calorie-burning in our lives that ever comes close to correcting what the wrong foods can do to us.