1. Relationship is a matter of compatibility and of numbers. When you fall, your not falling about age. When you are building a relationship, you're not building an age. Relationship is a matter of compatibility and not of numbers. There are younger people with matured thinking and there are older people with childish thinking.. Its not about age, its about maturity and compatibility. As long as you are both happy then age is not a hindrance. 70 % of the people we love someone, the first thing is to have a good feeling it's not age.