Marrying at age 22-25
You’ve probably finished college or are on your way to getting your career off the ground by now. At this age, you’re likely tying the knot with your college or high-school sweetheart — or even the guy you met on the first day of Kindergarten or became friends with after growing up together in the same neighborhood.
Pros: You and your groom are both young, so you can grow, change and move in the same direction as you grow together as a couple. You’ll be young parents if you choose to have children, and you’ll also be able to have a large family. Plus, when the kids get packed off to college, you’ll still only be in your 40s — which is young enough to embark on new adventures and rediscover yourselves as a couple, not just as other people’s parents.
Cons: When you’re under 25, you might not know yourself very well — especially when it comes to what you want to do with your life and what you really believe in, both as an individual and as a couple. People’s values also change quite a bit after their idealistic, naïve early 20s. The 50% divorce rate that’s so often cited in America specifically applies to people who marry when they’re less than 20 years old; for those in the 20-23 age range, it jumps to 34% — and that divorce rate also declines again as you age. And if you choose to be a stay-at-home mom, you might find yourself lost from an identity standpoint when the kids eventually leave home. “I don’t know what to do with myself now,” says Stacy Abrams, 42, of New Jersey, who got married at 22 and subsequently devoted her life to raising her five children. “My kids have to teach me how to use the computer now,” she admits.
Marrying at age 25-30
These are the fabulous, fun days of discovery where you’re finding out who you really are as a woman, what you ultimately want to do with your life, and what becomes meaningful to you personally. Dating men in their 20s and 30s will make you feel like the belle of the ball.
Pros: You’re more likely to end up with someone who shares similar values as your own now that you’re more self-aware. You also have had enough time to party it up with your other single friends, travel and endure long hours at work before you “settle down” like an “old married couple” with an established social circle and career.
Cons: Economically, a woman’s earning power is at its highest if she marries at age 30 or later, according to the “Knot Yet: the Benefits and Costs of Delayed Marriage in America” study published online at nationalmarriageproject.org. Marrying after your 30th birthday also adds an extra $18,000 to a woman’s earning power. One risk to consider: If you take a break to focus on child-rearing now, it could take a serious toll on your career.
แต่งที่อายุ 22-25คุณคงเสร็จวิทยาลัย หรือในแบบของคุณรับงานของคุณออกโดยขณะนี้ ในยุคนี้ คุณจะอาจจะเร็ว ๆ นี้กับหวานใจของวิทยาลัยหรือโรงเรียนมัธยม — หรือแม้แต่คนคุณตรงกับในวันแรกของโรงเรียนอนุบาล หรือเป็น เพื่อนกับหลังโตกันในย่านเดียวกัน Pros: บ่าวของคุณและคุณได้หนุ่มสาวทั้งสอง เพื่อให้คุณสามารถเติบโต เปลี่ยน และย้ายในทิศทางเดียวกัน ตามที่คุณเติบโตร่วมกันเป็นคู่ คุณจะเป็นผู้ปกครองถ้าคุณเลือกที่จะมีลูก และคุณจะยังสามารถมีครอบครัวขนาดใหญ่ บวก เมื่อเด็กได้รับการบรรจุออกไปวิทยาลัย เท่านั้นยังจะในยุค 40 ของคุณ — ซึ่งเป็นสาวพอที่จะเริ่มดำเนินการในการผจญภัยใหม่ และเหน็ดเอง เป็นคู่ เป็นผู้ปกครองของคนอื่นก็ Cons: When you’re under 25, you might not know yourself very well — especially when it comes to what you want to do with your life and what you really believe in, both as an individual and as a couple. People’s values also change quite a bit after their idealistic, naïve early 20s. The 50% divorce rate that’s so often cited in America specifically applies to people who marry when they’re less than 20 years old; for those in the 20-23 age range, it jumps to 34% — and that divorce rate also declines again as you age. And if you choose to be a stay-at-home mom, you might find yourself lost from an identity standpoint when the kids eventually leave home. “I don’t know what to do with myself now,” says Stacy Abrams, 42, of New Jersey, who got married at 22 and subsequently devoted her life to raising her five children. “My kids have to teach me how to use the computer now,” she admits. Marrying at age 25-30These are the fabulous, fun days of discovery where you’re finding out who you really are as a woman, what you ultimately want to do with your life, and what becomes meaningful to you personally. Dating men in their 20s and 30s will make you feel like the belle of the ball. Pros: You’re more likely to end up with someone who shares similar values as your own now that you’re more self-aware. You also have had enough time to party it up with your other single friends, travel and endure long hours at work before you “settle down” like an “old married couple” with an established social circle and career. ข้อด้อย: กาญจน์ อำนาจรายได้ของผู้หญิงอยู่ที่ความสูงถ้าเธอ marries ที่อายุ 30 หรือในภายหลัง ตามการศึกษา "ปมยัง:ผลประโยชน์และต้นทุนของช้าแต่งงานในอเมริกา" เผยแพร่ออนไลน์ได้ที่ nationalmarriageproject.org แต่งหลังจากวันเกิดของคุณ 30 ยังเพิ่มเป็นพิเศษ $18000 ผู้หญิงของอำนาจที่รับ ความเสี่ยงหนึ่งที่ควรพิจารณา: ถ้าคุณหยุดเน้นเด็กแม่ตอนนี้ มันสามารถใช้โทรอย่างจริงจังในหน้าที่การงานได้
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