Pluto creates situations meant to determine you to become aware of your real desires and needs in regard to your loved one, to “clean” the field of what is wrong, false or useless, to heighten the quality of your relationship, to bring it closer to what it’s actually meant to be. If it doesn’t manage to, Pluto could destroy what’s there, in order to build something else instead, something better. Whether you’re aware of it or not, Pluto makes you focus on your partner, be on high alert. But it’s never comfortable, it almost always creates some sort of pressure.