According to Rose and Frieze, a first date, or any date that follows, the man is typically and traditionally portrayed as initiating the date, planning the date activities, picking the girl up, driving, paying for the date, performing courteous acts for the date—such as opening doors and possibly making any affectionate moves and then returning the date home. The woman’s role tends to be more of a passive one. She is expected to wait for the man to initiate and determine whether or not to “accept or reject [a] date’s moves.”[7]