Good Morning, Por. Thank you.
First of all, I understand about forgiveness. It is the same in all cultures. Second, I am a grown man who has raised three children by myself and i understand very well the relationship between a father and his children. I learned a lot from my dad. I learned what not to do as a father from him. I have forgiven him for everything, and I love him because he's my dad, but he was never a role model to me. I never looked up to him, and for good reason. Fortunately, I had an incredible grandfather who I was close to. He was my role model. He was the one I looked up to and tried to emulate as a husband and a father.
I don't mind you asking about my personal life and my past, I will always share with you, but you shouldn't assume you know what's in my past.