You might be a person who does not know if you are a “how” person or a “what” person. But even if you are looking for a “what”, Buddhist practice is much more about “how”. If you can focus on the how you are, then you will hopefully find out how to be at peace and happy and content with whatever you happen to do. Whether you find the perfect thing to do or not, or whether you find the perfect relationship or not, you will find some treasures of inner well-being and compassion and love that you can carry with you regardless of what happens around you.