The problem is if you let your emotions control your actions with men, it can severely impact his level of attraction for you.
Being serious and sharing a deeper connection has it’s place (something I go deep into in my free relationship advice eLetter), but when a man does hurtful things like being unaffectionate, distant or not calling you back, most women’s reaction is to become “serious” over the bad things they believe to be happening and lose that light-hearted fun they were originally bringing to the table that draw men in in the first place.
Men absolutely crave a woman who is light-hearted and doesn’t take things too seriously… ESPECIALLY when things get rough.
Humor is like a BILLBOARD mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “I’m the one!”