Pim, I know you do not have another man - I know this. And you are not bad. You think I would give up my life here for a bad person ?
But I feel sad when you not reply to me - I try so hard to speak to you and you not respond - it makes me feel ignored and not loved when you cannot message me and just send music ! All afternoon I waited here for you - I gave up one little job and money to stay here and chat with you.
Busy with something ? You did not even ask me if I was busy - just said 'bye' !!
I am not a bad man, but I would hope that a wife would respect a husband enough to just say "I'm watching a movie and can we talk in an hour". You just did not reply to anything. I do not care what you do if you want listen to music or watch movie - but what I do care about is being sent music rather than a quick message 'can we talk later' ! Understand ?
I am giving up a life here to start one with you, so please try and take time - even if only a few words to say 'i love you, but talk in 1 hour'.