Anyway what fucking business is it of his who you have as B/f , who u have as friend . What you do in your life now ? ... He is the past not the future tell him to fucking grow up and stop being a dramatic child and move on with his own life ... Your not going to go back to him so tell him that and tell him he is wasting his and your time . Be a man accept that you don't want to be with him anymore . He sounds like a fucking little baby .... Tell him. If he keeps trying to find out about your business and private life you will hate him and never speak to him about anything. If he leaves you alone and moves on you will stay friends in the future.