i wouldn't say i was totally anti-social but i just wasn't the extrovert that i am today. i was never your cheerleading type in high school. it was in college that i decided that i wasn't going to meet Mr.Right in my room in the dorm. that's when i made up me mind to go out for at least an hour a day. it was a lot easier to stay in my room than go out i found a schedule of social events and marked them down.