Everyday Life / Profession:
Can it be that you have become accustomed to certain shock waves that always come from the same direction? You seek an appropriate approach, try to placate, and keep calm. The shock waves come from people who are close to you and very familiar with your weak points. These are provocations that you do not respond to because you really do not want to get involved on "such" a level. Keep this strong and peace-promoting attitude! You actually are already doing this very well. People will hardly notice how you feel on the inside. Sometimes it is enough to imagine what would be the best thing to say in this or that situation. If you are always prepared for the shock waves, they will no longer be able to throw you for a loop.
Partnership / Love:
In your private relationship, there are also already some "shock waves" on their way. In the best case, these are states of being in love that tear away the ground under your feet but always still have a certain allure and are not unpleasant - just terribly exciting. If you have already been in a relationship for a longer period of time, these states may be less pleasant. Then you have gradually grown weary of the recurring experiences.