I choose wisely to avoid to regret something.
you must understand that I don´t want to play with hearts.
If I say the first time ,,I love you" I have choosen.
I look how I can live together with the woman, if she want to live with me in my lifeway. Has she the same priorities, interest ans wishes.
For example I don´t like money greed people. :D
Money is not so important for me, I like more to be together as to have so much stuff.