That's ridiculous. A life is a life. From the time of conception you have a living thing inside you. Killing him/her is murder. Period. It's terrible that the other women in your boyfriends life don't support you in the fact that you don't want to kill your baby! They are probably the kind of women that are super controlling and want to have everything to do with your bf. And starting a life with you would take time away from them. As weird as it sounds, its kind of looking like that's the problem. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree lol. Best of luck to you