Thanks Mam, for letting me know I can see why you are concerned. I am too. He is clearly not well. You can see that he has taken to much meds. or drinking. Which one I'm not sure. I guess the pressure from losing the job had gotten to him. I've tried calling him many times tonight and wrote to him. I'm exhausted now and have to go to sleep. Hope to hear from you soon. You need to tell him this has to stop. If he can't work there he needs to come home. We will try and get him help here. SO sad this is happening again and wish things would just change for him. You can't let him continue to keep you upset.